I met a guy on Saturday. We met at a dance and he was into me and i was into him. He bought me a drink and we chatted a little. then he excused himself to smoke...(not good trait) Next time i seen him at the bar he mouthed the words if i wanted another. I mouthed "no" i still had my drink and i was DD so i didn't want to drink more. Then my best friend said hi why don't you come sit down. He laughed and sure enough he said down. He totally was cool with my friends asking questions about him before i even had a chance to introduce himself more to me. At that point he didn't even know my name until he said down. I totally loved it, it took the pressure off of me to ask the questions. I should have asked him more questions but me Miss shy girl was being shy. It was a relaxed, comfortable atmosphere and my friends were being polite and asking him questions just as he was asking them questions too. He then talked a lot to my best friend and was winning her over.
It was a weird night. I wouldn't change it though.
At about midnight his friends were heading to Tina's *name changed* house to drink. We were invited and we're going to go. My friends were drunk and having a good time...don't worry they had a designated driver. We decided to not go to his friends house as he mentioned they will have one drink and then go home and we would then be a Tina's house. Just Tina, him and i so we decided, maybe not. We then went to my place to have a beer and chatted to get to know one another. He slept over on the couch and then i drive him home in the morning...(did i mention i was DD for the night). He asked for my number and put it into his cell phone. He mentioned twice in the car that he would call me this week. So now it's Thursday i just got home from soccer, notice a cell phone number on my caller display at 915 but no message and i am wondering is he going to try again tonight....please do.
I have an answering machine but in it i mention "we are not home right now" i am a single girl i don't want the world knowing i live home alone. But know i'm afraid could he think i have a boyfriend. Also do i call the cell back?
It's this dating game that i don't understand and wonder when to play and when not to.
So give me some dating advice if you have it please.
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Phone him, show him you're interested in another date.
Your Mom's right, don't play any games. You make the rules and just do what you feel good about. Call him if you want to... if you want to wait- do that. It's alll up to you girlie!!
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